Thursday, May 25, 2006

in response to joyce's recent blog entry~

i noe u hav been toking abt this issue non stop~
i noe u find sth weird n u wanna voice out~
but i'd also told u my pt of view before~

i understand sometimes y some members r , like u said, avoiding certain topics~
i wun say tat they r dishonest~
coz they din say anything, they only plain refuse to tok abt it~
208 r close~
but humans r unique in very different way~
we use different way to express concern and love for one another~
which is y we reponse differently to the same topic~

it also depends on the situation tat we experience before and we r in currently~
sometimes, speaking the truth can hurt one deeply whilst sometimes it juz make one noe more aware abt themselves~
i'm not saying tat ur insistanace on speaking the truth is wrong~
but there r juz no universal way~

for me, i'll tell someone the truth abt themselves if only i m with him/her alone~
to me, if i tell them all their bad pts in front of so many ppl is embarassing them rite in front of their frenz~
n i would neva do tat~
i would neva tell u the truth in a manner tat will cut u so deeply coz i believe tat there r other ways to tell the truth without making u feel so bad abt it~
i believe tat when u love someone, it is being frank in ur emotion N also to think of tat someone's emotion~
for me, the second part will always be my first priority~

i dun voice out my true emotion all the time~
so wat if m i scare or angry abt sth?
i wun wan to spoil the atmosphere for my frenz~

let me drop u a hint~
let say i saw sth tat ppl dun usually see n i m scare~
i dun go telling 208 tat i m scare becoz of this reason~
coz tat will scare u all to the max~
this is y sometimes i kept so quiet~
n i do recall joyce n chin kept asking me why m i so stress~

second eg~
so wat if i m angry wid wat u did~
i dun start telling u off or scream at u while u r in ur good mood~
i believe tat to be happy is sometimes so hard to come by~
i wun wan to make u deprive of it juz bcoz i m angry at u for sth~
which is juz a small personal emotion of mine~

i also believe tat ppl r free to choose whether they wanna noe abt certain things n whether they wanna tok abt certain issues~
in my pt of view, a good fren will support their decision no matter which side they have chosen~
or rather i would say tat a good fren will understand and respect their fren's decisions~

i hope u get my pt~
"不把自己的快乐建筑在别人的痛苦上" - tat will be the way i use to love my frenz.
i hope u understand.
in this comment, i m not trying to point fingers or defend anyone~
i m juz stating wat i believe~
anyone is free to rebutt me~


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