i realised that everyone's not bloggin' animore.
pardon me if u think i m too sensitive.
but i m juz guessing that it is abt certain issues that concerns betwn the equality of "giving & recieving" issue.
or to be clearer - expectation issue.
i'm sure most of the 208 bloggers knows wat i'm toking abt.
i have been holding back my comment on this issue.
everyone in 208 means a lot to me.
n when i say this, i mean it.
i dun wan to choose between an "either-or" option.
but i do hav my tolerance level too.
and i hate to see this kinda tensed up situation.
Firstly, i believed the main factor to achieving a long-lasting relationship is acceptance.
Accepting ur fren for who she is.
Not TOLERATE who she is.
and definitely not EXPECTING her to become who u wan her to be.
and when i say this, i m not standing on either side.
Secondly, disagreements, disappointment, unhappiness, loneliness are all juz part n parcel of frenship.
there's nothing perfect in this world.
even couples quarrel.
thirdly, ask urself how much u value this frenship.
if ur frenz r very dear to u, pls think bef u act.
always put urself in ur fren's POSITION.
consider how she would react to certain phrase or word.
and one more thing, i m really AGAINST "declaring a battle" on blogs and MSN nick.
i think it is putting on a show for everyone to watch.
When u hav a problem, solve it.
not cry to the whole world to get their pity.
coz i'm pretty sure people are not so nice.
somethings are meant to be settled not only by others.
think of how u can play a role as well.
i noe a lot of people are gg to reserve their comments.
but if, there's anione who feels they hav strong opinions abt this issue, u r always free to tok to me on msn.
everyone that knows me, knew that i m a direct person.
it's either i say it or i "swallow" it.
if i choose to say it, it's either i noe u will accept it or it already exceed my tolerable level (which i m pretty sure that it's not very low).
can we maintain this good relationship for another 1 year?
it depends on each n everyone of us.
and i hate to lose either one of u.
@L3xIz's party on Saturday, February 10, 2007
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